TGIF!!!!

It's Friday!!!! I got up in a good mood today. Was it because i talked to my honey yesterday. Maybe! Was it because i got up on time for a change? Maybe! Was it because my house was clean when i woke up? Maybe! Who cares why it was....the fact is that it happened and well that's just great! Then i go to my mailbox and i had not one but TWO cards from friends wishing me well and reminding me they are thinking of me and praying for me and my family. How incredibly sweet is that? Made my day! I have read both cards numerous times already! And one of them included a magnet that said Smile on it. It is on my fridge so everytime i go there i can see it and smile and think about how much my friend loves me! Thank you Stephi! I will think of you numerous times a day now! I've been thinking today that after my whining yesterday i should say something positive. We are all entitled to whiny days. We are all entitled to happy days. Someone recently asked if i feel guilty for being happy on my happy days. At first i did. I felt guilty for getting to take my kids to McDonalds. I felt guilty for a lot of things. but then i thought about what my husband would want. He'd want me to be happy. So i asked him one day. I was right. He wants to know i am happy. He wants to know that the girls and i are enjoying our time together. He knows we miss him. He knows we love him. Just like we know he misses us and he loves us. But we want him to be happy too. We need to know that we are all doing well. It makes the time go faster too when you are happy and making the most of it. So if you are finding yourself feeling more sad than happy.....ask yourself what you can do about it. Can you put together a new package for the hubs? Can you write him a letter that tells him nothing more than all the reasons you love him? I've done that actually. It was fun! I felt so happy when i finished and he was so thrilled when he got it. I've written him letters telling all the little things i miss too.....but didn't concentrate on the sadness of it.....if you know what i mean....i told him i miss things like the way he brushes my hair with his fingers when i lay my head in his lap, the way he walks up behind me in a crowd and hugs me from behind and whispers that he loves me in my ear, the way he tells me that he loves having me for a wife whether we are alone or in a crowd of people, the way the throws paper at me when we are at home watching tv then acts like he didnt do anything. You know all those little things that makes him who he is and makes us who we are! I write him letters to tell him things i can't wait to do with him again. Quit thinking dirty! :O But i tell him those things too! Telling him these things not only makes me feel better, but i feel closer to him and when he gets the letters they confirm my love for him in his heart and make him feel loved and happy too. Anyway......i have other things to say but this one is getting really long. I'm gonna work on my next blog in my head. It'll be here tonight or tomorrow so ya'll come back now ya hear!